I'm a very young fit 43 yr old who has always wanted to meet and date a sweet transgendered girl but have no idea where to start in Peoria, IL. I'm really a transgendered myself but do not live full time. I'm a very sweet, thoughtful, and compassionate person and would love to meet someone who would appreciate those qualities. Can anyone please point me in the right direction where to meet the "Girl" of my dreams? By the way Kristi, I think you are absolutely drop dead gorgeous. I thank you for blessing all of us with your very being! I would love so much to meet you someday. You are a dream to me as I would so much love to be even half as beautiful as you but will never be. I have been lovelorn for so long that sometimes I lose hope that I'll ever find someone who will appreciate me for the size and depth of the love that exists in my heart. Thanks for listening all and have a GREAT day!

Hi Melissa,

I can tell you have a great heart! Wish I was closer to Illinois to give you a hug in person.

My usual advice is to begin with the search engines to locate personals sites, transgender friendly nightclubs, special interest groups such as Yahoo transgender groups, t-girl home pages, etc. Locate as many resources as possible and then put yourself out there by e-mailing them, joining them, searching the personals, placing your own personal, etc.

It isn't always easy to find that special person. I wish you the best of luck with your search. I believe someone is out there searching for you also and I hope you can find each other.

Hugs 'n Kisses,

Kristy