Hi Melissa,
Thank you for your message. You sound like a terrific person, and a "catch" for the right t-girl. There are many t-girls who are very happy to have a boyfriend and girlfriend all rolled into one!
I think you might like reading my guide to meeting t-girls at
http://www.ts4play.com/meeting-transsexuals/ Some of this information might help out. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone. The search for love can be long and arduous, but something such as love is worth the effort.
I hope you find someone very special!
Hugs 'n Kisses,
Kristy