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Ted
Hello Johnette, Kristy, and the other beautiful shemales. I know that many of you shemales look and act like women. You dress as women, you wear makeup and jewelry, you wear dresses and skirts.You are on female hormones, have had surgery to give you a woman's face. You have women's bodies with women's breasts, hips, and so on. You have had the hair on your face removed. You have soft female skin.
But you still have your male parts "down there".
Are any of shemale ladies going to have your male parts removed, and have them replaced with women's parts? Are you going fully transexual? Or are you staying shemale, looking and living as women but still have your male parts? In other words, are any of you shemale ladies pre-op trasnsexual ladies?
Angela
Ted,
I am not sure yet.
I have discussed having it done, with my man Jay. He would love me either as a She-Male lady, or if I were castrated and given a vagina, as a complete transexual woman. I will see how I feel about it later, after my femininization is complete.
Ted
Thanks for answering my questions Johnette. I wish Kristy or other shemales would also respond. Best wishes to you Johnette in whatever you decide about that.
Kristy
Hi Ted - Ask you you shall receive smile.gif

Thanks for your question. Yes, I have done most of the things you listed and I'm currently on female hormones. I'm very happy with the results I have achieved and I truly feel blessed. I haven't decided whether I will complete my transition with gender reassignment surgery. I've never been especially eager to get the surgery and I expect that I'll continue to enjoy my life as I am now.

This is a question that everyone has to answer for themself. It is a personal decision. My belief is that too many people in the transgender community feel pressured to conform. Some feel if your gender expression is always female that you should be considered transsexual and that you should get gender reassignment surgery. I disagree. Gender is determined by what's in your mind rather than what's between your legs. When medical science perfects gender reassignment surgery, maybe I'll reconsider it then.

Good question.

Hugs 'n Kisses,

Kristy
karen malcollm
Hi Ted, boy is this a thought provoking subject! Those are excellent answers by Kristy and Johnette who are both much further along their journeys. Starting out at yes most certainly wanting a vagina and being in the early stages of transition without an S/O acceptabillity, finance and criteria unfulfilled i didn't even know what a shemale was before this journey began and really wondered why people woulld do this. Well essence, mind, spirit and acceptability are the the most fulfilling achievements, the body is just the vehicle to contain it all,yet it is still the initial and possibly most lasting part of being accepted by others and honestly by myself as well. If it walks like a duck, and it tallks like a duck..... (Oh, refering to body includes shape, movement suppleness, hair ,voice and all other physical attributes guided by femminine essence). A From my earliest memories and throughout my life until now I have wanted to be completely female so right here right now my answer is yes with an I don't know what will happen or where I'll end up from here. It's like Kristy said about enjoying the journey. Yesterday I didn"t know I'd be here! smile.gif Hope that helps! - K
Angela
Karen, best wishes in your transition from male to female. It is a sexy, sensual, wonderful, loving experience being made into a beautiful, feminine woman.
Both She-Male women, and complete transexual women, are very beautiful, feminine ladies. And both consider themselves, and are considered by others, to be beautiful, feminine ladies.
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Ted darling, since I wrote that post, my man Jay and I have decided that I am going to be castrated and given a vagina.
Next Feb. I am going to have my sexual reassignment surgery done in Thailand, by the same surgeon that had done the operation on three transexual women friends of mine. He is one of the best surgeons in the world on that procedure, and contrary to the myth, a transexual woman, if the operation is done properly, does have feeling in her new vagina, and can very much enjoy sex with her man.
After my SRS I am going to have my legal status changed to female, and am going to marry my man Jay. I am very much looking forward to being his loving wife.
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In every other way, I have already been feminized, and am essentially a woman now, and living and dressing full time as a woman. Over the past year I have completed my hair removal, had my feminizing facial surgery, and had my beautiful, feminine women's breast implants. I am on estrogen. I love having a woman's face, a woman's breasts, and a woman's body, and living as a lady, and being accepted by others as a beautiful, feminine lady.
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My future husband Jay loves me being feminized and being made into a woman. I love being his lady.
My ex-wife Monique also loves me being transitioned into a lady. Monique has always loved femme gay men and transexual women, and loved the process of first my sissification, and then my feminization and being made into a woman.
Even when Monique and I were married and I was still a man and having sex with her, she loved dressing me up as a woman, and she loved the fact that I had gay relationships with men. It excited Monique and turned her on to doll me up and make me beautiful, feminine, and ladylike, to sissify me and femininze me, and she loved the fact that I was a femme gay submissive in the woman's role with handsome masculine men.
Monique used to refer to me as her "pretty, sissy, little femme gay husband", and it would drive her wild when I was completely dressed up and made up as a woman. She was so affectionate to me, would hug and kiss me and tell me I looked so beautiful and feminine, was such a beautiful, femmy little sissy boy, such a beautiful "lady".
Monique herself is a very beautiful, petite, feminine woman, she is very ladylike, and dresses very feminine, and it excited her to have a femme gay husband who was feminine like she was and who she could dress up as a woman, and prepare her femininzed, sissified, "lady husband" for dates with handsome, masculine men.
Monique is just one of those women that loves feminized gay men and transexual women.
She finds men being feminized and transitioned into women, in a way, very sexy and very sensual.
Even now that I am a woman, whenever I see Monique, she always gives me a big hug and a long passionate, loving kiss, and tells me how she loves me, and how we are no longer married, but we are best girlfriends and have a "spiritual marriage", a platonic marriage with each other, as two women who love each other.
Monique also gets along very well with my man Jay, and I get along with her new man.
Since Monique and I divorced, and she has a new man, and I was transitioned into a woman, Monique and I have become best girlfriends, we are still very close, spend time together, go shopping and to dinner or out for coffee at a coffeeshop together, and we love each other very much. Monique loves pinning my long blonde hair in updos, and she loves doing my makeup and nails for me, which I sometimes let her do, when we get together. She always loved doing that.
Sometimes Monique and I hold hands when we are out somewhere together. People assume we are a couple of feminine lesbians I suppose, little do they know that I was once a man and her husband. lol!
My daughters also are very accepting of me being made into a woman. Like my daughter Melinda told me, she is losing a dad, but gaining another mom. I am very close to my four daughters, who range in age from three and a half to twenty two in age. Monique is my third wife, and I have my little daughter with her.

Of course now that I am a woman, and have completed my feminization, and will have my sexual reassignment surgery, and become a woman legally, I will be in the role of a wife to my man Jay, and a mom to my daughters. I am very much enjoying my new role as a wife, mom, and a woman. I love being a beautiful, feminine lady. wink.gif
karen malcollm

Congradulations Johnette! smile.gif I was wondering what you were going to decide!!
Angela
Thank you darling! wink.gif
Kristy
Adding to Johnette's comments - I have a close friend who is a post-op transsexual MtF. She is orgasmic and says it is an incredible feeling. She is able to climax sometimes within minutes, but she isn't multi-orgasmic. That may be different for other post-op girls, I'm not sure. The appearance of her vagina is remarkably normal. She has been quite satisfied with her results.
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