I am new and im a bit on the curious side. I'm straight. but thing is ive been having these feelings about transexuals. I would love to try it. I should say ive come out of the closet and i want to take it farther. any ideas that could help?

Do you mean that you are a hetrosexual man that would like to be with a She-Male woman?

Being with one of us She-Males is just like being with a woman, we have women's faces, bodies, we talk and act like women, we have soft skin like women, we have breasts like women, the only difference is that "down there" we still have male genetalia. (unless of course the She-Male has had her transgender surgery, then she is completely a woman).
Many men that go with She-Male and transexual women consider themselves hetrosexual men, and consider us women, which essentially we are.
Treat a She-Male or transexual woman like the beautiful lady that she is, and she will treat you like a handsome man, and you both will enjoy it.

Take care darling.

thats why i want to be with one. they are like a regular girl except that thing down there. i would never date a guy but i would date a shemale

Hi Straightbutcurious - what you describe is more common that you might believe. There are many guys who feel the same curiosity you express. Many are open about it and many others keep it mostly secretive. You say you aren't attracted to guys and I understand that. Most guys who are attracted to transsexuals or shemales would never consider having sex with a man.

I believe there is a difference between guys that are attracted to guys (gay) and guys that are attracted to t-girls. For the latter group, the outward femininity is a necessary element of their attraction. The vast majority of admirers of shemales and transsexuals are attracted to their femininity. Indeed, many shemales and transsexuals take better care of themselves, dress and apply makeup better, and enjoy their femininity more than the average woman.

The statistics might surprise you. I don't have any definitive numbers, but I can tell you that I have met and otherwise corresponded with many men who are attracted to t-girls. Most of these guys live quite ordinary lives and one would never suspect from looking at them that they are attracted to t-girls. They come from all walks of life including all career fields. From my research and involvement in Internet projects, I can tell you there is a huge market in the "shemale niche" and the market is exploding.

I hope you find something to help you in your search here.

Hugs 'n Kisses,

Kristy

I agree. I couldn't imagine myself getting sexual with a guy. I don't see anything wrong with that, but it just isn't appealing to me. A t girl on the other hand can rock my world!

Adam

I agree completely Adam.

I think that someone's sexuality is whatever they want it to be. If you want to date t-girls but consider yourself heterosexual, that's cool. If you only date members of the opposite sex, but consider yourself bi, that's cool too. Don't let anyone tell you that you have to fit into some category because that's just BS.

And just think about it this way: when a man falls in love with a genetic woman, he loves her for all of her qualities, not just because she possesses female sex organs. So why should it be any different when a man has romantic or sexual feelings for a t-girl? It's not the penis that he's in love with or attracted to. It's the woman herself.

So don't feel conflicted, straightbutcurious. If you're physically and romantically attracted to women, but you're turned on by dicks and balls, that doesn't make you gay or even bi. You are whatever you want to be.

-Angel